It’s been five weeks since my last post. Partly because I’m a terrible blogger and partly because really not much has happened. We have one PATH class left, and then it’s on to the home study process.
In the initial weeks of training, we poured over how to prepare our house. In Tennessee, you have to select one of three age ranges (0-12, 0-18, or 6-18). We selected 0-12, and let me tell you—trying to plan for a range of 12 years and two genders is hard. We talked about what we were comfortable with, what ages we truly feel like we’d be most successful with, and the selfish reality of what we want knowing we’re hopeful this is a means to grow our own family.
Let me pause here and be completely clear. Yes, we want to adopt children from foster care. But we don’t want to do it at the expense of parents who are wholeheartedly striving to get their children back. We want to encourage those parents, walk alongside them and set them up for success for when they are reunited with their children.
So after many conversations, we came to the conclusion we want children on the younger end of the spectrum and we hope that our home study worker, our case worker, and the placement folks will be understanding and receptive to that. With that in mind, we decided to turn one room into a shared bedroom for two children. Our other bedroom will remain an office, but also house a futon to conveniently be a guest room as needed for our moms.
And now I’m in full nesting mode. I’ve bought so many things off Craigslist and sweet friends are beginning to offer their hand-me-downs.
The kids’ room will have a crib/toddler bed, a twin bed, a cube storage organizer to hold books and toys, and a dresser to share. If you have any suggestions for must have toys, books for game, let me know in the comments.
That brings us up-to-date for the most part. We are so excited to become parents to children for a season or forever, and already I’m incredibly thankful that our journey through infertility has brought us to this point.